A practical guide to using “prefer someone doing” in English
What Does “Prefer sb doing” Mean?
The structure “prefer sb doing” (short for “prefer someone doing something”) is used to express a preference about another person’s actions—specifically, that you would rather they continue or keep doing something.
⚠️ Note: This form is informal and more common in spoken English. In formal writing, “prefer that someone do” (subjunctive) is often preferred.
Common Structure
Subject + prefer + object + verb-ing
I prefer my kids playing outside rather than on their phones.
She prefers him wearing the blue shirt—it suits him better.
Examples in Context
We prefer our guests arriving after 6 PM.
He prefers his coffee made with oat milk.
They prefer us keeping the noise down at night.
Compare: “Prefer sb to do” vs. “Prefer sb doing”
Both are used, but with subtle differences:
✅ I prefer you to call me tomorrow.
→ Focuses on a specific future action.
✅ I prefer you calling me in the morning.
→ Suggests a general habit or ongoing preference.
Quick Check: Which sentence sounds more natural?
A) I prefer her singing quietly. B) I prefer her to sing quietly.