“In one's shoes” 是一个常用的英语习语，意思是“站在某人的立场上”或“设身处地为某人着想”。它常用于表达理解他人处境、感受或决定。
Put yourself in my shoes. —— 站在我的立场想想。If I were in your shoes, I’d quit that job. —— 如果我是你，我会辞掉那份工作。You should try to see it from his perspective — walk a mile in his shoes.（变体表达）例句 1： “Don’t judge her so harshly — you don’t know what it’s like to be in her shoes.”
例句 2： “If I were in your shoes, I’d take the offer before it’s too late.”
例句 3： “It’s easy to give advice, but have you ever really tried to put yourself in their shoes?”
这个习语体现了西方文化中对“共情”（empathy）的重视。英语母语者常用它来提醒他人：在批评或做判断前，先尝试理解对方的处境。
类似中文里的“将心比心”“换位思考”。